I have a wife but I love young men

Dear Pastor,

I am from Bull Bay, but I am currently in England with my wife. I am a revivalist. I have sexual urges for men.

I like having sex with young boys and I like when they return the favour. At nights, when my wife falls asleep, I will invite boys to join me on WhatsApp video calls for phone sex. I tell them how I want it. I am kinky but my wife can't satisfy me; she does not please me the way I want.

Pastor, please post this story. I want persons to share their thoughts on this.

C.

Dear C.,

You are a filthy man. You say that you enjoy having sex with young boys, and you do so regularly with them when your wife is asleep because she can't satisfy you in bed.

You know that you are gay. It is not right, therefore, for you to be blaming your wife for not having the type of sex that you would love to have. It is extremely unfortunate that when you should be sleeping you are inviting young boys to have phone sex with you. You are not interested in having a normal sexual relationship with your wife. Why don't you just admit that and stop behaving as if your wife has anything to do with the way you see yourself? You are gay.

I believe that there are many persons like you who would continue the way they are. You are happy the way you are, but if you need God to help you change your life, there is always room at the cross for you. You can always receive deliverance from Him.

Pastor